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Post by DTP. on Jan 29, 2008 15:24:24 GMT -5
I don't know if my friends are available or not, It's impolite to ask. I did to two of my best friends, I still like them that way but they're like the big sister and her friend that I never had.
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Post by perilloboy123 on Jan 29, 2008 15:30:24 GMT -5
Yeah, all the time.
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Post by addam on Jan 29, 2008 15:31:44 GMT -5
She has a boyfriend? Doesn't it just suck? Theres a girl who I've known for 2 months now and she's a great girl, very nice & very friendly. I've known she's had a boyfriend, but now she still is with her guy. Anyone have any experience like this? Doesn't it just suck? honestly, i used to prefer it that way. it's too easy to get girls that are available, it made me feel better to make them leave someone for me...which was sh***y for me to do because several times i didn't even REALLY like the girls, i just wanted to see if i could get them away from their boyfriends, but that's just how i used to get down.  my self-esteem isn't nearly as poor now so i don't need to do that to boost myself up, plus i'm married & i see it was wrong now, but at the time i never really thought about it. |
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Cooksterdude
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Post by Cooksterdude on Jan 29, 2008 15:45:46 GMT -5
Yep. I finally got the balls to just tell her how i feel before i could do it she starts telling me about her boyfreind. I was extremly depressed that day and just felt like crap for the rest of the week. Yep love sucks.
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Post by bad guy™ on Jan 29, 2008 17:08:23 GMT -5
Happens to me all the time. About 99% of the girls I befriend are unavailable. The other 1% are just not interested in me romantically. No better way to put it my brotha. |
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Post by JCF on Jan 29, 2008 17:31:47 GMT -5
Yep. I finally got the balls to just tell her how i feel before i could do it she starts telling me about her boyfreind. I was extremly depressed that day and just felt like crap for the rest of the week. Yep love sucks. Yeah dude, Same here. The whole day yesterday I felt like crap realizing I wont be able to get with her. It just sucks so freakin bad. I feel better today though. I might just say screw it and just get her phone #. Aint no harm in us being friends just hangin out sometimes. Hell, I can tell she's hittin on me. The talking to me and smiling and checking me out isn't just nothing. Damn I want her!!!!.....  |
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Post by v/\v on Jan 29, 2008 18:45:11 GMT -5
They always have summat else on the go.
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Post by hartbreakkid! on Jan 29, 2008 19:48:49 GMT -5
yeah. its happening to me right now, but at my birthday party she broke up with him. But then, they were making out by the time there parents picked them up. lol what a loser.
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Post by Captain Obvious on Jan 29, 2008 20:03:03 GMT -5
Happens to me all the time. About 99% of the girls I befriend are unavailable. The other 1% are just not interested in me romantically. Story of my life... I actually stated my job about a week and a half ago and this girl Ive been intrested but she has been dating someone for three years. Just a bit of advice don't go out with anyone you work with because when you break up (odds are that you will) then she'll come to work bawling her eyes out and saying how much she still loves you or vice versa. I went out with a girl who was 29 when i was 17 and that craphappened to me because my parents didn't like me dating an older woman. |
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Post by mercennario1080 on Jan 29, 2008 21:49:59 GMT -5
I haven't met a girl that I'm insterested with that has a boyfriend yet, but I remember one of the girls I liked I asked her out, she said no. 2 weeks later, she was dating one of my best friends.
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Post by v/\v on Jan 29, 2008 22:34:41 GMT -5
^ what a bitch.
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Post by BulletV1 on Jan 29, 2008 22:38:09 GMT -5
Happens to me all the time. About 99% of the girls I befriend are unavailable. The other 1% are just not interested in me romantically. I have had the same thing happen several times to myself. I feel for you. |
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Post by aggressiveperfector on Jan 30, 2008 0:40:23 GMT -5
Wow, this didn't turn into a huge flame war...sweet! LOL. Anyway, yeah, it's happened a few times and I've been hurt by it. We all have, some worse than others. I think I've kind of (and not to be like dramatic) but I think I just cut myself off from falling in love... it's just easier, I'm not really the relationship type (I've seen friends go through divorces and it just completely hit them out of nowhere and just crush them) and I'll play it safe. I kinda has the opposite happen... a girl fell for me, and got involved with me only to let me know she was married 4 weeks later... nice, huh? I've had a very similar situation... except it turned out she had a fiance in Iraq...a marine (I was a  ing Jody and I didn't even know it, stupid bitch) |
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Post by PhoeniX™: Valoween on Jan 30, 2008 7:21:43 GMT -5
Happens to me all the time. About 99% of the girls I befriend are unavailable. The other 1% are just not interested in me romantically. I know exactly how you feel. Recently I was getting along so well with this girl, then she said she was going to call her boyfriend. Oh well, least I made a good friend. |
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Post by timebombversion420 on Jan 30, 2008 10:50:55 GMT -5
it totally sucks yo, I also know from experience
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Post by D-Rock on Jan 30, 2008 11:49:02 GMT -5
ya all are better off in being "just Freinds" or grew a set before you get to kno her and ask her within the first 3 minutes of meeting her. thats when you can potential make or brake a realtionship....but yet i have known this one girl for about 7 years and i just realized how much i want her romaticly/sexualy and now i feel like a total doucheinhymer
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Post by inrogers29 on Jan 30, 2008 11:52:13 GMT -5
Wow, this didn't turn into a huge flame war...sweet! LOL. Anyway, yeah, it's happened a few times and I've been hurt by it. We all have, some worse than others. I think I've kind of (and not to be like dramatic) but I think I just cut myself off from falling in love... it's just easier, I'm not really the relationship type (I've seen friends go through divorces and it just completely hit them out of nowhere and just crush them) and I'll play it safe. I kinda has the opposite happen... a girl fell for me, and got involved with me only to let me know she was married 4 weeks later... nice, huh? I've had a very similar situation... except it turned out she had a fiance in Iraq...a marine (I was a ing Jody and I didn't even know it, stupid bitch) Wow thats ed up. Her hubby was off in a war and she was ing guys. That sucks. |
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Post by JCF on Jan 30, 2008 12:01:52 GMT -5
ya all are better off in being "just Freinds" or grew a set before you get to kno her and ask her within the first 3 minutes of meeting her. thats when you can potential make or brake a realtionship....but yet i have known this one girl for about 7 years and i just realized how much i want her romaticly/sexualy and now i feel like a total doucheinhymer See now, Today I was going to say something to her, Something like a compliment. She had this really awesome shirt on, And I was going to say something like, "Hey, That's a nice shirt your wearing". Then I'd crack a little smile or something to her. Unfortunatley for me, I didn't have the balls to say it to her. But now I really think I have to "grow a set" because theres something that's really pissing me off, And it's that theres another guy hitting on her. I mean, I get so like mad when he's talking with her, Because I know he's just a true pr*ck anyway. I have to "grow a set" and I know I do because if I dont make a move, Everything's going down hill for me. I gotta say or do something tommorow, Something that will get me on the next step with her before this other pr*ck gets with her. |
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Post by D-Rock on Jan 30, 2008 12:07:23 GMT -5
dude just stright up rock his shit!!
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Post by addam on Jan 30, 2008 12:08:45 GMT -5
Wow, this didn't turn into a huge flame war...sweet! LOL. Anyway, yeah, it's happened a few times and I've been hurt by it. We all have, some worse than others. I think I've kind of (and not to be like dramatic) but I think I just cut myself off from falling in love... it's just easier, I'm not really the relationship type (I've seen friends go through divorces and it just completely hit them out of nowhere and just crush them) and I'll play it safe. I've had a very similar situation... except it turned out she had a fiance in Iraq...a marine (I was a ing Jody and I didn't even know it, stupid bitch) Wow thats ed up. Her hubby was off in a war and she was ing guys. That sucks. i had a friend who was shacking up with a girl who's husband was in iraq about a year ago. i talked to him about it a lot at the time cuz he really liked her a lot, but he felt really bad about the whole thing, but she ended up dumping him for some other guy anyways. idk, i think that's about as low as you can get to be cheating on your husband who is off fighting a war. |
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