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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Jun 24, 2011 22:22:33 GMT -5
OK so here is the story. I go to the bank near my house a few times. There is a cute girl who works there so today i go in and we r small talking and joking around. I would like to get her number but i am VERY shy and usually don't do good in these situations. What or how can i go about this. If i get rejected would it be weird seeing her every time i go in the bank? Give me some help here guys. I was thinking of sending flowers or something but think that is to advance kind of thing.
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Post by CM Poor on Jun 24, 2011 22:26:03 GMT -5
OK so here is the story. I go to the bank near my house a few times. There is a cute girl who works there so today i go in and we r small talking and joking around. I would like to get her number but i am VERY shy and usually don't do good in these situations. What or how can i go about this. If i get rejected would it be weird seeing her every time i go in the bank? Give me some help here guys. I was thinking of sending flowers or something but think that is to advance kind of thing. Sending her flowers would probably skeez her the hell out. Go for her number - worst thing is she could say no, and she passes you off to another teller from then on. Gotta learn to take rejection with grace - don't push the issue if she says no.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Jun 24, 2011 22:28:11 GMT -5
OK so here is the story. I go to the bank near my house a few times. There is a cute girl who works there so today i go in and we r small talking and joking around. I would like to get her number but i am VERY shy and usually don't do good in these situations. What or how can i go about this. If i get rejected would it be weird seeing her every time i go in the bank? Give me some help here guys. I was thinking of sending flowers or something but think that is to advance kind of thing. Sending her flowers would probably skeez her the hell out. Go for her number - worst thing is she could say no, and she passes you off to another teller from then on. Gotta learn to take rejection with grace - don't push the issue if she says no. That's what i thought with the flowers too. How do i go about asking for her number. I never really asked a girl fro their number not to sound stuck up but most girls just gave it to me.
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Post by roddypiper on Jun 24, 2011 22:31:01 GMT -5
Sending her flowers would probably skeez her the hell out. Go for her number - worst thing is she could say no, and she passes you off to another teller from then on. Gotta learn to take rejection with grace - don't push the issue if she says no. That's what i thought with the flowers too. How do i go about asking for her number. I never really asked a girl fro their number not to sound stuck up but most girls just gave it to me. Just ask her... if you want to be kinda fresh about it if she asks you if you would like an envelope for your money say yes and if you could write your number on it too because I would lvoe to call you sometime.
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Post by Grumpyoldman on Jun 24, 2011 22:32:07 GMT -5
Give her your number & say "I hope I don't sound too pushy, but I'd like you to call me if you're interested in going out sometime."
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Post by CM Poor on Jun 24, 2011 22:33:09 GMT -5
Sending her flowers would probably skeez her the hell out. Go for her number - worst thing is she could say no, and she passes you off to another teller from then on. Gotta learn to take rejection with grace - don't push the issue if she says no. That's what i thought with the flowers too. How do i go about asking for her number. I never really asked a girl fro their number not to sound stuck up but most girls just gave it to me. Just work it into your small talk: Young$Money: Small talk, small talk, amirite? BankerChick101: LOLLOL Yeah Totes Young$Money: So listen, me and some of my brohams were considering a trip to the bowling alley/drinking establishment/charity sockhop. You down? BankerChick101: Sounds smashing/groovy/cool. Young$Money: I know, right? so what's your digits? I'll call you when you're out. BankerChick101: 1-800-Lets-Date. I'm off at 6/noon/clocking out early. Smooth sailing.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Jun 24, 2011 22:37:08 GMT -5
That's what i thought with the flowers too. How do i go about asking for her number. I never really asked a girl fro their number not to sound stuck up but most girls just gave it to me. Just ask her... if you want to be kinda fresh about it if she asks you if you would like an envelope for your money say yes and if you could write your number on it too because I would lvoe to call you sometime. SO far pretty good replies but this is funny b/c today she asked me and i wasn't really paying attention and said yes then go o nm i dont need it. So she goes oh you usually say no to them i said yeah i can't lose this money though in a joking way. maybe i will go with that.
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Post by dbdanielson on Jun 24, 2011 22:37:49 GMT -5
It's better to give her your number than ask for her's. You could end up calling a local restaurant.
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Post by gordon on Jun 24, 2011 23:01:32 GMT -5
It's better to give her your number than ask for her's. You could end up calling a local restaurant. I suppose, but she could just easily throw his number away.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2011 23:07:33 GMT -5
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Just ask her out, if she says no then move on. Better to ask her before you develop a HUUUGE Crush on her.
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Post by machoking on Jun 24, 2011 23:07:51 GMT -5
The word "no" has never killed anyone. 10,000 no's will be easily erased by one simple yes.
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Post by nathanielnd on Jun 24, 2011 23:21:51 GMT -5
Dude, I got a number from this chick on my first try the other day lolz. Small talk is a good thing, keep that up, how often do you see her? Anyway, always start out with, "Hey, how's your day going?" but since she's at work ask her "Have you guy been keepin' busy today?" Then follow-up with a little joke.
I've gotta few other questions, how long has this talking been going on? Does she really laugh at your jokes or does she just like do a he-he laugh? Also rejection isn't that bad, it happens to the best of us.
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Post by roddypiper on Jun 24, 2011 23:23:31 GMT -5
And if she says no... RKO her.
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Post by nathanielnd on Jun 24, 2011 23:26:47 GMT -5
And if she says no... RKO her. Agreed ;D haha!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2011 23:39:43 GMT -5
If you ask her and it works.. Get a photo.. I'm keen as to see what she looks like!
Bank chicks are so hot.
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Post by roddypiper on Jun 24, 2011 23:44:37 GMT -5
If you ask her and it works.. Get a photo.. I'm keen as to see what she looks like! Bank chicks are so hot. I was going to tell you Young Money that flowers would make you seem like a creepey verison of Mr. Rogers who probably likes to date rape women... But this guy gets the honor of being WF's creeper of the year congrats.
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Post by "The Visionary" Eldniw on Jun 25, 2011 0:02:56 GMT -5
That's what i thought with the flowers too. How do i go about asking for her number. I never really asked a girl fro their number not to sound stuck up but most girls just gave it to me. Just work it into your small talk: Young$Money: Small talk, small talk, amirite? BankerChick101: LOLLOL Yeah Totes Young$Money: So listen, me and some of my brohams were considering a trip to the bowling alley/drinking establishment/charity sockhop. You down? BankerChick101: Sounds smashing/groovy/cool. Young$Money: I know, right? so what's your digits? I'll call you when you're out. BankerChick101: 1-800-Lets-Date. I'm off at 6/noon/clocking out early. Smooth sailing. This for the win!! I'm sitting here laughing my ass at work...
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Post by dbdanielson on Jun 25, 2011 0:44:39 GMT -5
It's better to give her your number than ask for her's. You could end up calling a local restaurant. I suppose, but she could just easily throw his number away. Well, that's certainly better than calling McDonald's thinking it's a teller at a bank.
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Post by juicewinslow on Jun 25, 2011 2:41:39 GMT -5
If you ask her and it works.. Get a photo.. I'm keen as to see what she looks like! Bank chicks are so hot. Yeah and make sure to tell her that you're going to post it on the internet on a wrestling action figures message board cause some random dude with 1 post asked you to. LOL. Just jokin. But yeah chicks who work at the bank are normally hot.
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Post by TheXtremisT on Jun 25, 2011 5:06:10 GMT -5
Give her your number & say "I hope I don't sound too pushy, but I'd like you to call me if you're interested in going out sometime." This sounds like a good plan, I'd go with that. Straight after you say that, say something like: "But, now that you have my number, you must agree to call me only once a day!" Just play it cool, and say it in a confident way that makes you come across like you can take and make jokes A sense of humour is the best way to a girls heart
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